From a Barna Report:

Results from a new study by The Barna Group reveal that a majority of Americans say their most important personal relationship is not with God, even though the U.S. has a global reputation for being religious. Family surpassed their Heavenly Father as the key personal connection. However, when asked to identify the most important group or network in their life, colleagues from their church topped the list, mentioned by three out of every ten adults.
Overall, seven out of ten adults mentioned family or family members as their most significant connection. One-third said their entire nuclear family is tops, while one-quarter (22%) named their spouse and one-sixth (17%) identified their children. (An additional 3% mentioned their parents as their key relationship.)
The only other relationship mentioned by at least three percent was various iterations of people’s deity. God, Jesus Christ, Allah and the Trinity were among the names listed by one out of every five adults (19%).
Although adults listed numerous groups or networks that they deem to be most important, those groups generally fit into five categories. Three out of every ten adults (29%) said their church was the most significant group affiliation. The people they affiliate with at their place of work represented the top choice for two out of every ten people (18%), followed by loose associations of friends that regularly gather together (14%), a hobby club or social group (12%) and interaction with people in the neighborhood (7%).
Various subgroups displayed divergent priorities.
- People 25 or younger listed friends as their most critical network; church ranked fifth on their hierarchy. In contrast, adults over 25 ranked church as their key social group, followed by their work relationships.
George Barna highlighted one of several intriguing outcomes: “People were more than 50 percent more likely to say that their church’s congregation is their most significant group than to say that God represents their most important personal connection. That certainly reflects the interpersonal comfort that millions of people have developed at their church, but also indicates that people may have forgotten the ultimate reason for belonging to a Christian church.”
From me:
While it is really good that family occupies our most valued relationships, they can never replace a vibrant living relationship with Jesus Christ. When asked about my friendships, I usually acknowledge that Kellie is my closests and dearest “earthly” friend. I just want to make sure I don’t put her in God’s place.
What do you think about the Barna report?